...holding on & letting go

"Life is balance of holding on and letting go."

~ Rumi

...must be earned

A Calm mind, Fit Body and a house full of love - these cannot be bought, they must be earned. 

- Naval Ravikant

...your answer?

end up having

"Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more."

~ Oprah Winfrey

...for kindness

"Wherever there is a human being, there is an opportunity for kindness."

~ Seneca